Planned Ignoring: Dealing with Attention Seeking Behaviour

April 16, 2017

Sometimes the best way to get someone’s attention is to stop giving them yours. Have you ever heard that saying before? It often seems ridiculous to parents when I suggest it: why on earth would I let them get away with something I don’t want to them to do?! And I know you’ve heard it … Read more

The Parenting Posse: your virtual village.

April 14, 2017

Have you ever found yourself becoming the go-to person about a certain topic? I know I have a particular friend I consult with on all things DIY, another I ask all my cooking questions to and someone totally different who I have no shame in asking advice on organising and decluttering. That’s basically how I created … Read more

Extinction Bursts: Why What You’re Doing “Isn’t Working.”

March 1, 2017

If you’re a part of my Facebook group (or even if you aren’t) you’ve probably heard me refer to the term “extinction bursts”. Usually at the end of a post in a warning tone. This is a term that I use a lot when describing a child’s behaviour that “is just getting worse” in response … Read more

Using Declarative Statements with Toddlers and Preschoolers

February 27, 2017

How often do you find yourself saying things like “Stop that.” “Put that down.” “Come here.” “Sit still.” ?  I feel like as the mother I’m constantly barking commands that have little to no effect. Sound familiar? This is what’s called imperative language. Imperative language is used for functional purposes like making requests, asking questions, … Read more

An Introduction To Natural and Logical Consequences

February 25, 2017

Natural and Logical Consequences are a method child guidance (often called a discipline method) that has certain advantages over other methods- such a timeouts: They’re connected, make sense, and real.  The punishment has to fit the crime- they aren’t made up. They’re self-enforcing. After a while, the child learns the true consequence to their actions … Read more